A nurse named Rigby was convicted of coercive behaviour and sentenced to a suspended prison term. Her abuse included forcing her boyfriend, Mr. Jones, to swallow toothpaste and mouthwash, restricting his diet, making him do errands, and controlling his work schedule.
Rigby's controlling behavior extended to physical violence; she hit him with a candle holder, causing a facial scar. She also made him pay for a costly expert report for a family court case concerning her children, demanding he provide a false witness statement in her favour. Her abuse escalated to the point where Mr. Jones considered suicide.
The court heard how Rigby showed contempt for Mr. Jones, flaunting a designer bag he was forced to buy her. Mr. Jones, deeply affected, now carries a "grab bag" with essentials due to his experiences. Rigby received a 20-month suspended sentence and a restraining order, prohibiting contact with Mr. Jones for five years.
The victim would be ‘‘frisked’’ by Rigby before leaving the house and forced to work from their local library, pub or supermarket café until she came home.
On occasions, he would have to work late into the night as he was made to do errands and jobs for Rigby during the day.
Mr Jones gave his mother a ‘‘duress code’’ to indicate when it was safe for them to speak without Rigby listening, the court heard.
At one point, he was hit in the face by a glass candle holder leaving him with a scar across his nose.
When Rigby’s children became the subject of family court proceedings involving her ex-partner, she made Mr Jones pay for a £3,000 expert report and file a false witness statement supporting her plea to get custody, the court heard.
Rigby told him: ‘‘I may not control social services, but I can control you and I am loving it.”
At Chester Crown Court, Mr Jones told how he was driven to the brink of suicide by the abuse as Rigby, who admitted coercive behaviour, was given 20 months jail suspended for two years and was banned from contacting her victim for five years under the terms of a restraining order.
He said he was now so haunted by his experiences he kept minimal possessions and would have a ‘‘grab bag’’ with him containing a toothbrush and washing products and a towel at all times.
He also accused Rigby of showing ‘‘contempt’’ for him by turning up to court appearances flaunting a £400 Marc Jacobs shoulder bag he was ordered to buy her during a shopping trip to Harrods.
The court heard the couple met in the summer of 2021 through the Plenty of Fish dating website.
He subsequently gave up his flat in Crewe to move in with her but Frances Willmott, prosecuting, said: ‘‘By the autumn, she told Mr Jones he had to lose weight if he was to stay in a relationship with her.
“She would restrict what Mr Jones ate when out and if he ate anything more substantial than a salad would be verbally abusive.
“If Mr Jones ate while away from Rigby, she would refuse to come near him and say that he smelt of onion or garlic. She would insist Mr Jones swallowed toothpaste and drank mouthwash.
“Even when Mr Jones lost a significant amount of weight, Rigby was still abusive about his appearance.
“On New Year’s Eve 2021, during an argument, Rigby clawed at Mr Jones face and and he was made to sleep on the floor as ‘punishment’.”
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