'Bully' nurse forced boyfriend to swallow toothpaste and mouthwash


A British nurse was sentenced for coercive control after forcing her boyfriend to swallow toothpaste and mouthwash, among other forms of abuse.
AI Summary available — skim the key points instantly. Show AI Generated Summary
Show AI Generated Summary

The victim would be ‘‘frisked’’ by Rigby before leaving the house and forced to work from their local library, pub or supermarket café until she came home. 

On occasions, he would have to work late into the night as he was made to do errands and jobs for Rigby during the day.

Mr Jones gave his mother a ‘‘duress code’’ to indicate when it was safe for them to speak without Rigby listening, the court heard. 

‘I can control you and I am loving it’

At one point, he was hit in the face by a glass candle holder leaving him with a scar across his nose.

When Rigby’s children became the subject of family court proceedings involving her ex-partner, she made Mr Jones pay for a £3,000 expert report and file a false witness statement supporting her plea to get custody, the court heard.

Rigby told him: ‘‘I may not control social services, but I can control you and I am loving it.”

At Chester Crown Court, Mr Jones told how he was driven to the brink of suicide by the abuse as Rigby, who admitted coercive behaviour, was given 20 months jail suspended for two years and was banned from contacting her victim for five years under the terms of a restraining order.

He said he was now so haunted by his experiences he kept minimal possessions and would have a ‘‘grab bag’’ with him containing a toothbrush and washing products and a towel at all times. 

He also accused Rigby of showing ‘‘contempt’’ for him by turning up to court appearances flaunting a £400 Marc Jacobs shoulder bag he was ordered to buy her during a shopping trip to Harrods.

The court heard the couple met in the summer of 2021 through the Plenty of Fish dating website. 

He subsequently gave up his flat in Crewe to move in with her but Frances Willmott, prosecuting, said: ‘‘By the autumn, she told Mr Jones he had to lose weight if he was to stay in a relationship with her.

‘During a row, she clawed at his face’

“She would restrict what Mr Jones ate when out and if he ate anything more substantial than a salad would be verbally abusive.

“If Mr Jones ate while away from Rigby, she would refuse to come near him and say that he smelt of onion or garlic. She would insist Mr Jones swallowed toothpaste and drank mouthwash. 

“Even when Mr Jones lost a significant amount of weight, Rigby was still abusive about his appearance.

“On New Year’s Eve 2021, during an argument, Rigby clawed at Mr Jones face and and he was made to sleep on the floor as ‘punishment’.”

Was this article displayed correctly? Not happy with what you see?

We located an Open Access version of this article, legally shared by the author or publisher. Open It
Tabs Reminder: Tabs piling up in your browser? Set a reminder for them, close them and get notified at the right time.

Try our Chrome extension today!


Share this article with your
friends and colleagues.
Earn points from views and
referrals who sign up.
Learn more

Facebook

Save articles to reading lists
and access them on any device


Share this article with your
friends and colleagues.
Earn points from views and
referrals who sign up.
Learn more

Facebook

Save articles to reading lists
and access them on any device