Mikołaj, a Polish engineer, met Paula, a Chilean woman, during an Erasmus exchange program in Spain. Their love story spanned eight years, largely a long-distance relationship between Poland and Chile. Despite challenges, including financial constraints and visa processes, they persevered.
After careful consideration and two visits to Chile, they chose to live in Poland. Mikołaj's deep love for his country and the advantages offered by Poland such as free education, which contrasted sharply with Chile's predominantly private education system, influenced their decision. Safety concerns in Chile also played a role.
The article extensively details the cultural differences the couple navigated. Paula's initial perception of Poland involved a sense of safety, cleanliness, and a different attitude among people compared to Chile. She also noted the differences in customs, including removing shoes before entering houses and the level of punctuality.
Conversely, Mikołaj was surprised by Chile's stark contrasts: modern cities contrasted sharply with slums, and its significant social inequality.
Their wedding, near Częstochowa, combined Polish and Chilean traditions, from the ceremonial entrance to the food and music, showcasing both cultures harmoniously. Their daily life also blends both cultures; they speak both languages at home, blend culinary traditions, and enjoy both Polish and Chilean music and customs.
The birth of their child, Gabriel, added another dimension to their intercultural journey. They discuss the differences in child-rearing styles between Poland and Chile. Poland's focus on independence contrasts with the close family ties and communal child-rearing common in Chile.