Melanie Williams hadnât even turned 10 when her father arrived home to his three wives and communal brood of children with a fourth bride in tow.Â
Bride No. 4, she remembers, was just 14 years old - the same age as Melanieâs big sister.
It was the 1980s in Utah, and this was the way things were done in the fundamentalist Mormon polygamist cult Melanie, like both of her parents, was born into.Â
Her fatherâs new teenage wife had been deemed âwildâ by the men running the cult, Melanie tells the Daily Mail, meaning they âlook at it like sheâs wicked and she needs to be married off right away and locked down with a baby and impregnated⌠she canât go out and sow her wild oats,â she says.
It wasn't long before the young bride ran away from her new home, where jealousy between wives was rife, Melanie says.
Melanie broke free from the cult when she reached young adulthood, escaping to California in 2001Â to pursue a career in Hollywood.
In 2008, while making ends meet as an actress in LA, Melanie tried out for a game show hoping to win some prize money.Â
She was almost instantly chosen as a contestant on Foxâs short-lived Moment of Truth, which was known for hooking participants up to lie detectors and asking deeply personal, potentially damaging questions.Â
Melanie Williams, an actress who'd fled a fundamentalist Mormon polygamist cult, appeared on Fox's 2008 game show Moment of Truth where she said she believed her father had sexual relations with a minor
Melanie, in red, is pictured with her father and two sisters during her time as a member of the Second Ward, an offshoot of FLDS, which had already split from the mainstream LDS church after it outlawed polygamy
Melanieâs appearance on Moment of Truthâs second season made history, even though it never aired in the US. She was the only contestant to ever answer all questions truthfully for the $500,000 prize money.
Living on through clips of the taped show, which eventually aired over seas, she remains a viral sensation to this day.
âFor $500,000, Melanie Williams⌠do you believe your father, as an adult, has ever had sexual relations with a minor?â the host can be seen asking in the viral clip.
Melanie tearfully answers the host: 'Yes.'
Her father, John, who flew to California for the taping and was in the audience, is seen shaking his head on camera in surprise and dismay.
The clip alone is shocking, but Melanieâs life before that was equally dramatic.
The Daily Mail attempted to reach John Williams several times for comment - each attempt was unsuccessful and family members declined to put us in direct contact.
Melanieâs childhood in Hildale, Utah, had been cloistered and stifling. She was born in 1979, delivered by a famed midwife whoâd brought thousands of babies into the fold of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (FLDS) â which had established a thriving, hierarchical and complex society in the southern Utah area.
The cult, promoting polygamy and rules set down by a living âprophet,â had split in the early 20th Century from the mainstream church of Latter-Day Saints, which outlawed plural marriage.
FLDS was undergoing another schism in the years surrounding Melanieâs birth: A new offshoot calling itself the Second Ward, or the Work, cropped up in the same area, governed by a priesthood of several male elders, rather than the FLDS prophet.
Melanie said she was raised Second Ward, though her maternal grandfather remained FLDS and constantly hounded her mother to âcome back to the true church.â
Polygamy, obedience and womenâs subservience were central tenets of both, Melanie told the Daily Mail.Â
Melanieâs mother was her fatherâs third spouse. She recalls each wife having her own room in the home, where her father âwould circulate from Wife One, Wife Two and Wife Three.â
Melanie is the seventh of her fatherâs 40-or-so children, of which her mother birthed 14, she said.
âThey teach us weâre full-blood sisters, full-blood brothers â that weâre all equal growing up,â Melanie told the Mail.
But from a young age, she could tell otherwise.Â
Her fatherâs second wife was a daughter of The Prophet, and Melanie noticed her children always seemed better taken care of.
The group undeniably favored what Melanie calls âreligious royaltyâ â just one of many problems she had with the lifestyle.
Growing up, Melanieâs mother would take her to Walmart in nearby St. George. There, she found herself âmesmerizedâ by magazine covers featuring beautifully done-up women, while her own prairie dresses attracted stares.
âI could feel the glares,â she told the Mail. âI could feel the stares. I could feel that people were whispering.â
Melanie, right, poses with her sister, left. She says all women she was raised alongside were taught âIf you live polygamy, you go to heaven⌠thatâs what God wants you to do. That is the highest law'
Melanie, left, knew that she and her community were different from an early age, and felt women were the second-class citizens of the cult
None of the girls were allowed to wear pants, she remembered, and their legs had to be covered at all times.
Her mother would say, âYou are chosen to walk this path. You are an elitist. Youâre better than them. God loves you, and itâs not going to be easy.â
And it was hard.Â
Melanie recalls waking up at 5 a.m. to plant corn daily, describing how 'we had to work two hours in the yard⌠to get cheese on our omeletâ. Sheâd stay up all night making mandalas for wife No. 1 to sell in the desert.
She also recalls knowing her gender was a barrier from a young age. The men, she said, were the âones that had all the clout and power.
âWe were nothing. We were treated like dirt and traded like pawns.â
She told the Daily Mail that, among fundamentalist Mormon polygamists, âthe men are told to get as many women as they can.
âThey can stay in the fast lane and take as many women as they want, but the women have to just choose one man and build his empire.â
From birth, Melanie said she was taught: âIf you live polygamy, you go to heaven⌠thatâs what God wants you to do. That is the highest law. You sacrifice your jealousy. You go through all these tests and trials where you learn love for the other women and you donât have jealousy.â
She said that at 15, her father tried to marry her off to a rich, 71-year-old cult member - she still chokes up thinking about it. Melanie said her father convinced her to go on a date with this man, saying, âWhatâs the worst that can happen?â
What happened, she told the Mail, was the man drove her out of the state, took her to a casino and said âGod told him [she] belonged to him.' He said he'd arrange their marriage the following week and tried to pressure her into spending the night.
Melanie said her father encouraged the marriage â though she successfully resisted.
John took a fifth wife after his teen bride fled, but Melanie notes he was wrestling with abiding by cult teachings - and that had an influence on her, too. She remembered him getting in trouble for transgressions including watching broadcasted Dodgers games.
âHe started going his own way, which they call âthe way of the worldâ⌠which is watching television, reading books that are forbidden, taking on more freedoms that they donât want you to have for control reasons,â Melanie said.
Melanie's mother, right, was her father's third wife. Melanie said left him and remarried in the FLDS community after he began disregarding strict rules
She said her mother left John because of it, heeding her own fatherâs advice and getting remarried through FLDS. By then, the cult was being run by Warren Jeffs, whoâs now serving life in prison for child sexual assault.
But Melanie was also going âthe way of the world,â saving up money to leave. At 22, she packed up her car and drove to Los Angeles, enjoying the freedom but shocked by the newness.
Tasks such as paying rent, putting money in parking meters and even driving in a city were all foreign to her.
âI had to deprogram my brain of the things they put in â the fear that they planted deep into my psychology,â she said. âI was slowly saying, âThis is okay to try⌠Godâs not going to strike me down dead if I try this.â'
Meanwhile, she said her mother sent her hate mail, though she eventually stopped. Siblings back home told her she was being preached about at services as a cautionary tale, Melanie told the Daily Mail.
Melanie left Utah and the fundamentalist community in her 20s. She is pictured here during her time auditioning as an actress in California
After a period of partying and self-destruction, Melanie said she began auditioning, doing stand-in and acting work and waitressing to pay the bills. She told no one of her upbringing, afraid of what theyâd say or think.
Until she turned up for Moment of Truth.
The since-cancelled show primed contestants by asking 50 deeply personal questions - pre episode taping - while hooked up to a lie detector. They then selected 21 to re-ask in front of an audience during the episode's taping. Correct answers â many of which could be hurtful or damaging to contestants or their loved ones â won money ranging from $25,000 to $500,000.Â
âThe first time I talked about it was in this audition,â she said. âI go in there and Iâm like, âIâm not comfortable talking about these things, but⌠I left this cult.â
âAnd they were like, âWhat?!ââ
A Texas FLDS ranch had recently been raided by state police and child protection authorities, and the polygamist group was atop the 2008 media agenda, often in the headlines.
Producer Howard Schultz â best known for Extreme Makeover â âlooked at me, and he looked at the other [producers], and heâs smiling really big,â she said.
When producers began calling Melanieâs family to enlist their participation, many refused - but her father agreed. They had a good relationship at the time, and Melanie told him sheâd share some of the prize money if she won.
He was in the studio as Melanie answered question after question correctly, cheering his daughter on.Â
After Melanie gave her 20th correct answer, producers shut down the set.
No contestant had ever gotten so far.
She was whisked up to a suite with executives, she says, and asked three new questions that were âextremely disturbing,â she told the Daily Mail. She was told that final question of the show would be picked from those three in an unprecedented move.
âThey changed the whole show rules right there on the spot,â she says.
One question was about her dadâs sexual history with minors. She answered, then begged them not to include it as Question 21. Â
She argued that theyâd flown her father out to California for the taping just to âbetray me and him on national television,â also begging them to consider the backlash she was sure to suffer from her family and members of the cult sheâd successfully fled.
âThey promised multiple times they wouldnât go there - theyâre like, âYour dadâs safe,ââ she said.
âSo they blindsided me⌠at the end of the day, they just wanted ratings.â
Schultz died in 2014, and the current president of Lighthearted Entertainment, Jeff Spangler, told Daily Mail that 'the baseline conversation and polygraph was with the initial 50 questions.
'Per the rules, they could be asked additional polygraph questions, and those could be used,' he said, insisting that 'she wasn't cornered in any way.'
After Melanie answered the dreaded last question, she tried to explain to the host: âIt was men telling him what to do. They gave him a wife, he took it. You step up and take wives in this society, and he did, and⌠he feels very guilt-ridden and very guilty about it. Itâs killing him, I know it is.â
Her father chimes in on camera, saying, âGosh, Iâm not sure when I did this I knew what a minor was. That was a long time ago.â
While the crime was a felony, the statute of limitations in Utah would have expired. And producers had further couched the allegation by phrasing the question to ask whether Melanie 'believed' it happened, which did not establish truth.Â
In the immediate aftermath, Melanie recalls to the Daily Mail, âfamily warâ broke out. She claims her father âemotionallyâ called one of her brothers and said, âShe betrayed me on TV, my own daughter.'
The family âtold me that I owed them,â Melanie said, and she claims that she wrote checks that sent her into debt â waiting for payment from a show that never aired. Moment of Truth was cancelled after one season, and Melanie was left in limbo about the $500,000 from her Season 2 victory.
Then, she got a call from a stranger in Sweden claiming to have just seen her show - she realized it sold internationally. It wasnât long afterward that Fox invited her to pick up the check.
She did, though she was âstill very madâ â and reaped the benefits despite her episode never materializing on American screens.
In the years since, she married and divorced a grandson of Jeffs, whoâd also left the cult, and became estranged from her father.
Melanie, 46, treasures the freedoms she now enjoys after breaking free from the cult's practices and teachings - including her recent solo trip to Italy, pictured
She wrote a book called Time to Woman Up, chronicling her upbringing in the âpatriarchyâ and encouraging women to find their voice and power.
Sheâs posted about pedophilia, polygamy and other problems on social media, but every time was âattackedâ by both cult and family members.
âWe canât keep brushing it under the rug, or it goes into the next generation,' she said of the lifestyle. 'We have to have these difficult conversations.â
Now, Melanie is living in Missouri near her brother and his family, who are active in a local polygamous religious group. She wants to show by example how independence can be achieved, without shoving her escape in anyoneâs face.
âThe women find this very fascinating,â she said, noting that local mothers 'have many kids.Â
âThey donât have their own land⌠They donât even have a decent car that works. They canât even go to town.â
She teaches those who approach her that âit takes a lot to fight and make your own money â youâve got to have that grit.
âSome of them are open to me, and some of them are threatened.â
Despite the threats and vitriol, Melanie is committed to continuing her mission.
'My purpose is to find women and empower them - give them the tools to be confident, believe in themselves and succeed,' she said.Â
'[They] deserve to have a better life⌠they can have it if they just lean into that belief system.'
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